So, for our final spring theme Thursday, the question is, quirky or cartoon?
Now, I'm going back to bed.
xoxo,
Amy
This is a picture of my two oldest 4 years ago. Man, I can hardly believe how quickly they get big. Last night we encountered one of those "growing pain" moments when kids try to grow up faster than their parents are ready for them to. My oldest is amazing. I've already told you about the challenges she posed for us early on in her life, but now she's a gem. She brings home straight A's, gets good behavior reports from everywhere she goes (school, church, library), she's a great friend and a loving daughter. So, why is it so hard for me to let her grow up? She wants to learn how to bake and sew. She is working hard at showing us how responsible she is. And yet, to me she's still my little girl. So today's mom-day post isn't from me, it's for me. How do you start letting go? How do you give them room to learn to make decisions, to suffer consequences so they can grow, to reward them for their growth and learning? She hates being the oldest. She says it comes with few/no rewards. I'd like to change that for her. I don't want to let her stay up much later because, like her mother, she requires her sleep to function. I'd love to hear ideas on how you reward your children with privileges as they gain the capacity to do more. Also, with a younger brother only 2 years behind her, how do I differentiate between the two, since they often get lumped into the same category by default? I know there are many out there who have been down this path already, or been through it as a child with ideas on what to do/ what not to do, or those who have siblings learning these things. Any suggestions, ideas or solutions would be greatly appreciated. I know as a family we are starting to turn a corner, and as much as it frightens me to let my children start venturing out into their own space, it terrifies me that I will handicap them forever if I don't start giving them the opportunities and strength they will need to be strong capable adults. Help a girl out? (and her mother too. ;) )
I have been on pins and needles with excitement this week! I Can Not believe how fun this project has been. And when I saw the collage today- I was floored. I mean, I knew we had some great bloggers involved, but I am completely blown away! And I am totally loving the fact that there are a couple of "skirts" that you wouldn't immediately think of when someone said "skirt" to you- Fab- U- Lous! Want to see more of what each blogger did? I have all the linkage you need:


I was sitting here at the computer today, wondering what in the world I was doing worrying about crafting and spring pillows and everything when people around the world are suffering unspeakable things right at this very moment.

